Sunday, April 04, 2010

High Chair Photo Shoot

Brandon decided to have a little photo shoot with Lucy while she was in her high chair - I guess it's one of the only times we can actually get close-up pictures of her without her trying to eat the camera.
I don't know what we did without digital cameras before (well actually, yeah I do - we took a lot of crappy photos and spent lots of money on film and developing) but now, I can't seem to narrow our digital pictures down so I just end up posting them all!

Saturday, April 03, 2010

Daddy's Girl

These pictures are a little old but I love them:I don't think that she realized I was taking a picture here so she looks a little pensive...

...and like she is on drugs here...

...but there is a winner! She learning how to smile for the camera with that big, toothy grin.

This one - not so much. We'll hold off on the modeling career. But do you see that dress she is wearing - my mother made it while she was in Japan and brought it when she came out to visit. How adorable is it! And with the way Lucy is growing (not much) she'll be able to wear it for a long time.

Friday, April 02, 2010

My Three Loves

Honestly, I have more than three loves in my life but these are the top ones, all in the same room...

...actually, all in the same bed...

...the hubby - giving mom a break by taking care of Lucy. He sometimes takes for granted how much work it is so I don't blame him for taking a well deserved rest...

...baby Lucy. I think that I might love her most when she is sleeping - makes your heart melt (and requires the least amount of work)...

...and last, but not least - kitties! I just wish that George were in the picture with Angel but he is anti-social (and possibly schizophrenic).

But this made me laugh the most:
I would have thought that the easier solution would be for Brandon to sleep on the outside and for Lucy to sleep by the wall - but hey, pillows on the floor work too.

I also love how Brandon has covered himself with the blanket but not Lucy - always so thoughtful. One of my other loves is sleeping - wish I were napping here with them...but someone had to take the pictures.

Tuesday, March 30, 2010

Bad Karma

I didn't think that I was necessarily gloating in this post but perhaps may have been overly enthusiastic about telling people what a great little sleeper Lucy was. And was is the magic word here because she certainly isn't sleeping so well these day. Is this karma coming back to hit me in my sleepy head?

It all started in December with the craziness of the holidays throwing off her schedule, new teeth, the excitement of crawling and cruising, double ear infections followed by roseola, and another cold followed by a second ear infection. Just when we're getting over the second ear infection from the beginning of March (but which probably started the end of February but mom was too stupid to bring her to the doctor right away), she cuts a new tooth. This past weekend, she gets a fever so it was home-bound again on Saturday and Sunday (although I will admit, we went out to eat at Chipotle on Saturday night and to Borders for a book but it was after the ibuprofen kicked in and she was feeling a bit better).

A visit to the doctor yesterday confirmed that the fever wasn't caused by another ear infection but just some virus, probably a cold and even though I thought that the fever had broken that morning, it was back up to 101.9. Contagious - yes. So I guess that means I won't be babysitting my 2 month old niece this week who is sleeping 12 hours a night when my sister goes back to work (I remember when Lucy slept 12 hours a night...). Congestion and runny nose also started yesterday so pediatrician says not to be surprised if it develops into another ear infection! That would be the third one if it does. Thanks goodness we have good insurance for all these doctor visits.

Trying to look on the bright side here - we had a good excuse to skip out on church on Sunday and watched movies all day while Lucy cuddled up to us. But it's hard to overlook how fussy she has been and last night was the worst - nursing wasn't comforting her and she was up a lot - crying. Don't know if she is frustrated because she can't sleep because she can't breathe or if maybe she is already developing the ear infection or if she is cutting another tooth. Who knows with babies - it's all a guessing game to me. I can't go to the gym with her sick so we're stuck at home this week. It's almost April, people! Can I just get two consecutive nights of good sleep!

Friday, February 26, 2010

Did I mention...

...that I have a new blog? Actually, it is a blog that my two sisters and I started. It's called Wabisabi Mama and is mostly about us rambling about motherhood. Totally kidding (but not really). There are some recipes and fun activities that we share and a lot of them focus around our cultural heritage (Japanese) so if there are any Japanophiles out there, this is for you! But even if you're not, it is also for you (unless you have no interest whatsoever and that's okay too cause who has time to follow another blog these days?)!!

Elaine (MamaQ) and Emily (MamaM) do a lot more posting than I (MamaD) do - I'm still trying to get into the swing of things and be more disciplined (starting off with this post on my personal blog to get all of you to become followers). I have plans in my head of writing these really sincere/heart-wrenching/humorous/etc posts and hopefully, that happens. So I do plan on actually contributing something...soon. Emily is just really organized (she does have her MBA) and they are both much better at taking pictures than I am (and have much better cameras than I do and don't use parenthesis as much) which makes for better posts I think.

But anyway, HERE it is.

Check it out. Tell us what you think. And if it sucks (or is awesome, cause you know - it could be), let us know why.

Thursday, February 25, 2010

Cat Attack!!!

Okay, I'm exaggerating - it wasn't really an attack, more like a scratch. And it was bound to happen sooner or later - two cats and a 10 month old don't always mix. And it was probably more of my fault because the cats are actually really good with Lucy. Rather, they avoid her or just walk away when she annoys them. George actually won't let her get within two feet of him without bolting but Angel is a little more tolerant and will let Lucy pat her and even grab her fur a bit before Lucy gets bored or Angel walks away. However, in this instance, I had closed the door to the room we were in and Lucy cornered Angel and she probably felt a little intimidated (...and threatened...and trapped). I wasn't paying much attention and then heard Lucy cry. This was the result:

The only time I can get these types of close-ups now is when Lucy is asleep.


There are actually two scratches - a small one just under her eye and then the long one across her whole cheek. I know that I'm not going to hear the end of this from all the cat haters out there but besides this one incident, they've been really good! I just hope it doesn't leave a scar!! Poor thing - first, bite marks (and it was on that exact same cheek) and now scratch marks. What next? It probably won't be the last scratches she receives from the cats (I can personally attest - the cats scratch me on accident occasionally) but hopefully, they will be the last ones she receives on her face!

Here is the culprit:No, not those two sweet, little girls (Lucy's cousins), but that fat gray cat they are petting. Angel is so relaxed...

...all playful and cute at first...

Then the claws come out!

I meant to find some cute pictures of the cats (as they were my main subject of photos before Lucy was born) but they must be on our old computer and I all I could find were my nieces from Christmas about to be eaten by my kitty. Just kidding - I know that Lucy's aunt wouldn't be too happy about that.

My Salvation...

No, it's not JC in this particular instance although BHJC is great for a laugh - rather, it's a weekly date night. I took for granted these weekly date nights pre-Lucy but now, I know better. It's not always my biggest priority and if we don't plan ahead, sometimes it doesn't happen. But when we do have something fun planned and actually go and do it, I'm always astounded how much I look forward to doing it (read: escaping from my daughter and stay-at-home life) and how refreshed I am after we're done. And also how much more I look forward to seeing Lucy when we return home. Of course, it is not without some worry but overall, to forget that I'm responsible for my little one for a couple of hours is such sweet bliss.

Last weekend, we headed to downtown Salt Lake City to hit up Gallery Stroll with Kohl and Chris Glass, friends who just moved to SLC from Arizona. We got our grub on first at Himalayan Kitchen (good food if you like Indian/Nepali cuisine but small portions for the price and not the best service) then strolled down to Kayo Gallery where our friend, Jared Steffensen, had an installation piece in the show. Then we drove down to Discovery Gateway to see the Winter Wonderland show by our friend Cindy Ferguson who does Scherenshitte (the German art of papercutting which I love saying, especially after watching Inglourious Basterds).

I didn't take any pictures (of course) but here are some of her papercut pictures from online from the show:
How beautiful and intricate is that? When I first heard about papercutting, I was like, "Huh? What's the big deal," but it really is some beautiful stuff.


Someday, when we have a little bit more money set aside, I'm going to commission Cindy to do a papercut for Lucy's bedroom. You can read more about Cindy and her show here. It's free so check it out!

Another Cold!!!

I don't know if it's the gym daycare or just plain bad luck but the whole family is down with another cold. It's a functional cold at least, so Brandon is still able to go to work and it doesn't set me and Lucy back too much but I haven't been to the gym for over a week (mostly cause you're not supposed to bring your sick kids to daycare but I think that there are a few that ignore that rule and that's probably how Lucy got sick in the first place) and I'm going through tissues like crazy. But what I am mostly worried about now is that Lucy may have another ear infection because her nose was dripping like a faucet. Just when she started sleeping through the night again, she starts waking up in the middle of the night and I have been sleeping in the guest bed with her since this weekend. We skipped church on Sunday and have pretty much been home-bound the past week and I'm going crazy.

At least Lucy is as happy a baby as ever:

She is loving the new piggy pajamas that Obaa-chan brought her from Japan.

And enjoying being Manager Lucy in the office chair...

Although being boss isn't always all fun and games - especially with crybabies like mom and dad to watch over...
But nothing spells relief from boredom like playing in the Huggies box!

Who knew that a box could be such entertainment?

"Okay Mom, I'm done and Dad isn't even playing with me - he's reading, again!"

Just for the record, Lucy is not in size 4 diapers yet, she just barely started size 3 - we're just stocking up on a good deal.

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Oh My CUTENESS!!

So I'm kinda partial to Asian people but this is some serious cuteness. How lucky are these girls that their parent is a professional photographer (cause if this is amateur, I'm feeling some serious envy)? It makes me want to have another baby so Lucy can have a little sister...but just fast forward past all the poopy diapers. I don't know who this guy/gal is, but I'm lovin it. And there's a blog too!

Tuesday, February 16, 2010

Babies


So I might be a little baby crazy, with a new little niece and two high school friends with babies due in 2010, but this movie looks absolutely delightful. I saw this trailer a couple of weeks ago before watching the Young Victoria. I was mesmerized while watching it and this is definitely on my must-see list. It comes out on April 16th - put it on your calendar!

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

One thing after another....

Just as Lucy started sleeping through the night again after getting over her double ear infection and the excitement of visitors at the house, a new problem emerges. And this is right after I develop this scary bump on my neck which requires a CT scan and a visit to the ENT specialist (just ended up being a painfully, swollen lymph node). Two Sundays ago, right before church, Lucy vomits all over Brandon (and his just dry cleaned sweater - grrrr!) and when we check her temperature, she's running a fever. We skip church, call the doctor, are told to monitor and give acetaminophen to control the fever but by the evening, the fever is increasing. Why do these things always happen at night...and on the weekends?

We ended up going to the ER that evening at IMC because the urgent care center that we usually go to was already closed. Poor girl had her temperature taken rectally (but at least it was lower than with the armpit) and ears were checked (no more ear infections at least!) and we were just told to switch off ibuprofen and acetaminophen to control the fever. The fever lasted until yesterday and she slept through the night last night but then she had this crazy rash all over her body. Called the doctor, brought her in, and was told it was probably roseola.

The roseola looked a lot worse than it actually was. But we skipped out on the gym and visiting Emily, baby Olive, and my mom, just in case...

I wish that I took a picture cause it looked terrible. Well, actually, I tried but my camera is so crappy (that my mom finally brought back from Japan - yeah!) or I just don't know how to use it and I couldn't get a high enough resolution picture to even show what it looked like. But here is a picture from on-line:


Scary, huh? Just imagine that all over her abdomen. How come I have never even heard about this or read about it? Supposedly, it is very common but not enough to be mentioned in What to Expect the First Year (or maybe I just fell asleep or haven't got to that part yet...)

Saturday, January 23, 2010

I think I'm in love...

...with my new niece, Olive:She's beautiful and so perfect! I think that she looks just like my sister and she has a full head of thick, black hair. She made her grand debut at 5:46 AM after an epic labor and delivery and I got to witness it all. You would think that I would have taken more pictures instead of stealing this one from my brother-in-law's iPhone but I was too busy recording the birth and helping out Emily. She did it all natural without any meds and rocked the hospital down.

It was so amazing to witness.

It makes me want another one (despite being witness to the incredible pain!) I couldn't even remember my own L&D but I loved holding that little newborn in my arms. Lucy is so big compared to little Olive and my other niece, Maya will be a giant!

But enough about everyone else - let's talk Olive!

Middle Name: Kumiko (in honor of our mother)
Length: 19 inches
Weight: 6 lbs 14 oz (so little!)

And perfect! Mom and dad are doing great with minimal sleep. See you tomorrow, Olive!

Thursday, January 21, 2010

Family Pictures

So I don't think that I ever posted our first family pictures (which were actually from Heather's wedding back in July) but here they are:

We ended up printing out this one above which was our favorite, but in black and white. Lucy looks so little and it wasn't even that long ago (well, she was 3 months so I guess that was 6 months ago)! And my hair was so long!! We've still yet to get it framed and hung up in our home which for anyone who has ever been to my house, knows that I'm crap at decorating (or rather, I don't decorate at all). I'm working on it though.

Oh, my squinty Asian eyes and Lucy's eating her dress....anyway, the pictures were actually taken by Heather's wedding photographer, Adriano Batti, which I'm realizing was very smart of him because he posts the pictures on his website and allows the wedding guests to view and order them from him directly which brings in a stream of revenue that he wouldn't have otherwise had from just the bride and groom (cause I'm guessing that Heather and her husband don't feel the need to have a framed picture of my family on their wall or anything...I could be wrong though.)

Here are our latest family pictures, taken a few days after Christmas before Brandon's grandmother's 100th birthday party at the Joseph Smith Memorial Building in downtown Salt Lake City.

I know that a lot more were taken but these were the favorites from my mother-in-law that she has sent me so far. My dilemma is that I like the way that I look in the first one better but I like the way that Lucy and Brandon look in the second one. I also like how the first one is a little tighter and doesn't have so much space around us. So which one should I get printed? I'm not so crazy about my hair in either picture (how did it get so long already?) and I wish I put more thought into what Lucy wore - her feet seem naked without shoes even though she never wears shoes. And our outfits together seem all wrong - not that I wanted a theme to what we were wearing but just something a little more together. And me and Brandon's lower half of our bodies just kinda melt into the couches so we look really bottom heavy - I don't work my butt off at the gym to have it disappear! I kinda wish we were standing instead of sitting - it feels kinda unnatural. Am I just being vain and nit-picky? I know, I complain too much - and especially too much considering that I didn't even pay for all this.

Wednesday, January 20, 2010

9 Months and Cruising!

Lucy had her 9-month doctor's visit the other day. Here are her stats:

Height: 27 1/2 inches (50th percentile)
Weight: 15 lbs 5 oz (5th percentile)
Head Circumference: 44 1/2 cm (between 50th and 75th percentile)

She hasn't seemed to have grown as much compared to her last visit but the pediatrician didn't seem concerned about it. We just have a petite little girl. It's been a little confusing for me because I think that I was a little worried about her relatively low weight at the 6-month visit that I really started to push the solids. But then Lucy backed way off of breastfeeding and I didn't want that so I decreased her solids. My understanding was that as she grew, she would maintain her breastfeeding and just add solids on top of that. I went to a La Leche League meeting where I was greeted with the same advice as I was doing but I sometimes feel like the information is a little biased toward breastfeeding over everything else. However, I followed their advice/my initial instinct and was actually quite lax in her meal times, sometimes skipping her solid meals if we were busy or out of the house with the expectation that she would make up for it in her breastfeeding if she were really hungry or the next time I fed her. But after this 9 month appointment, I think that I am going to be much more disciplined with her solids. It just seems like everything with a baby is trial and error, especially your first.

One thing is for sure - she is an incredibly active baby and along with her crawling, is now pulling herself up on her own and cruising. She babbles like crazy and it almost sounds like she is singing. She is very curious and loves to explore and get into everything. She has a special fascination with the dishwasher and when I was turned away for a moment, had crawled on top of the open door. She almost jumped into the tub last night as soon as she saw Brandon filling it with water but he was able to catch her before she did. Bath time is another favorite for her. She is definitely showing a lot more interest in books and is even starting to sit still for them (for a little while at least).

Feeding time is wearisome these days as she has learned that she doesn't need to swallow and can spit the food out. Peas and green beans are the usual problems although she loves her fruits. But finger foods have been all the rage now that she has mastered the pincer grasp and she loves crackers, cheese, bananas, and pears (and that's about all I've given her so far). I kinda want to be done with the pureed baby foods and cereals and just give her finger foods so I don't have to deal with the mess.

In other news, her schedule has been very erratic for the past month it seems. So anyone who was wishing my next child was the devil child after reading this post can rest easy - we have our problems with this one. Lucy had never been the best daytime napper but we could always count on a great 10-12 hours of fairly uninterrupted sleep each night...until December. This kinda coincided with my going to the gym where I think that Lucy picked up a cold at daycare (unless she got it at church). She had it for about a week and her cough was so bad that it would wake her up at night. Then, she cut one tooth and was up all night in pain (unlike her first two teeth which came up pretty easy). Then she got better, then got a cold again, then cut three teeth all in one night! Then it was the holidays and we were out late at night, naps were sometimes optional, and family was in town which made for some hectic days. Lucy was waking up every night, multiple times and often just an hour or two after we would put her down for the night. We thought that once we got her back on schedule with her naps and feedings and things calmed down, she would start sleeping through the night. Well, all of those things may have contributed to her poor sleeping habits but once we thought we had addressed them all, she was sleeping worse than ever and I started to sleep with her in the extra bed which seemed like the only way anyone in the house was going to get sleep (even though the quality of my sleep really suffered). We even started to let her cry it out but that just doesn't work so well at 2:00 and 3:00 AM when a minute of crying seems like an eternity. It was so unlike Lucy.

I explained my concerns to the pediatrician at Lucy's appointment but was met with a, "I think that you just need to let her cry it out - this often happens to babies that are nursed to sleep..." even though I have been nursing her to sleep forever and it never interfered with her sleeping through the night until December. But then, the culprit was discovered. The pediatrician checked Lucy's ears and exclaimed, "Oh, she has an ear infection - in both ears!" Poor girl - mom and dad were too busy thinking up every other possible explanation about why she wasn't sleeping through the night anymore, except that one. I actually did ponder on it a bit before but came to the conclusion that it couldn't be because she was so pleasant during the day and surely, it would be more obvious. Well, we got her prescription for antibiotics and things are improving a little - hopefully, a lot more in the next few days. We got the okay on acetaminophen for the teething pain as well, so let's cross our fingers. I don't how much longer I deal with these sleepless nights!

Friday, January 15, 2010

Daycare Drama


Last month, I treated myself to a one year gym membership from 24 Hour Fitness for my birthday. Along with that, I paid extra for the daycare so I would have no excuse not to go to the gym. I was also worrying about Lucy's socialization and that she was getting bored at home with just me and that some interaction with other adults and children might do her some good. And getting a 2 hour break from Lucy each day and getting some exercise would do me some good too.

When I picked her up from daycare today, the daycare workers nervously explained to me that another baby bit Lucy! On the cheek! Fortunately, he didn't break the skin and she seemed fine but there was a big, red bite mark on her face. The other baby was actually more of a toddler, I think 18 months, and this is the THIRD time he has bit another baby. It sounded like it was completely unprovoked, that he was actually following around Lucy and "loving her" as the daycare workers explained to me but for some reason, bit her.

The workers have told me that the other children just love Lucy and follow her around and pat her head and she usually has a really good time there. And she's a tough cookie - she usually recovers very quickly from shots, falls, and bonks on the head. I actually feel a little bit bad for the boy's mom because he will be suspended from daycare but it will be up to the daycare supervisor how long that will be. He's already been suspended twice before. I don't know, maybe Lucy has her own little Edward to worry about now.

Tuesday, January 12, 2010

Designer Blog Giveaway


My blog is pretty old. I have been thinking that I need a new blog template but I'm too lazy. I saw this giveaway though and thought that I should enter to try to update my look. Where does everyone else get their cool blog designs? I rarely win these giveaways but I guess it's worth a shot...

Tuesday, January 05, 2010

Best Statement of the Holiday


"Grandpa! Come look - I just did a WHOLE diarrhea!"

Cause we really needed the clarification since half and quarter diarrheas are so commonplace these days...

Christmas

We had sort of an off year for Christmas this year. It was supposed to be a Sturgis family Christmas but since we had just shelled out a lot of dough to go to Japan just a few months ago with almost my whole family, we opted to stay home and keep it simple. However, Brandon's parents, brother, his wife, and their son came out from Buffalo and Brandon's other brother came out from California with his kids who we haven't seen in forever. We did minimal hosting but with all the kids, it was chaotic, but fun.

Brandon's family has a great tradition of doing the nativity on Christmas Eve. Since we had the most recent baby, Brandon and I got to be Joseph and Mary and Lucy was baby Jesus.

Here are some great pictures that Brandon's brother, Damian took (thanks Damian!). I, of course, did not bring my camera but he is much more skilled in taking pictures anyway:

Here we are, starting off the story. We had very minimal costumes as they are mostly kept at Brandon's parents' home in Buffalo. So I improvised with a scarf and my nursing cover.

One of our cute little nieces was the angel while Brandon's mom and the other niece were shepherdess and sheep. Brandon's dad had narration duties.

Here we get a view of "backstage" where Brandon's brothers and nephew are waiting to make their entrance as the Wise Men.

All gathered around baby Jesus/Lucy in the "manger", worshiping her cuteness. Gifts of gold, frankincense and Hugo Boss cologne were presented.

Small audience - Grandma and Grandpa Thompson.

We finished off the production with some cast photos at the end.

For Christmas, we headed over to Damian's house again for exchanging gifts. We captured the first picture of all the grandkids together:

Strike 1! Taylor was more interested in something else than posing for pictures...


Strike 2! Lucy wasn't happy about something and Owen was looking a little frustrated. While Olivia looked like she had just watched the Ring, Morgan looked perfectly content...

Home run! We finally got one! (Thanks Auntie Jamie for Lucy's cute outfit!)